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Writer's pictureShiridisha

5 Amazing Tips to Lead a Beautiful Life

Updated: Nov 5, 2022

In today's world, living life isn't easy. There is something that always bothers us, irritates us, pains us, and sometimes makes us happy too. But there come certain moments that change us, and most importantly make us realize the beauty of life and the things it offers. Don't miss those moments.


Today I will share some essential rules that help us live our lives in a much better and more peaceful way. Are you ready to know what they're? Ready to choose a path that makes your life beautiful?


Okay, let's go..!!


Remember, "OUR CHOICES MAKE ALL THE DIFFERENCE."

So, "CHOOSE CAREFULLY"

Here are some of the choices you can make.


1. Don't trust anyone blindly


Often we tend to believe people and trust their words. It's good. But remember, the world out there is dangerous.


Each one of us is different. We think differently. Our wants are different. Our choices are different. Habits are different. So how do you expect people to think and be like how you're to them? That's not correct, right!!?


Have a broad mind and be willing to accept people wishes and habits. But at the same time, be cautious. There is no wrong with being careful.


Trust people and their words. But observe their actions too. They say a lot. Agree right!!



If you trust someone blindly and if, by chance, they take advantage of you and your situation we cannot simply say they're wrong. It's not their mistake alone. It's our mistake too that we missed observing them well.


So what I say is Trust people, but not blindly. Be careful.


2. Forgive, but never forget


In life, there come situations where we be in such a vulnerable state after undergoing certain challenges. They change us as a person and make a strong impact on our lives.


We won't be able to trust anyone. We don't want to undergo those situations in life again. But that shouldn't stop us from living our life as we wanted and dreamed.


It's hard to get over people and what they have done for us. But remember, you are strong.


We are stronger than we imagined ourselves.


Bad situations or experiences shouldn't define us. They should only be treated as our learning. You deserve better.



Go take that path that's waiting for you. Find the treasures that have been looking for you. Go chase your dreams. Nothing can stop you from pursuing your dreams.


Show life and people that nothing can break you. Laugh at those who wanted to see you in pain.


Once you know how strong you're, nothing can affect you anymore. You can overcome any situation. Just give it some time.


Time heals everything. Don't you believe this? Just think of your life for a moment. You will admit it to yourself then.


You may not see the difference immediately but slowly and steadily you will be transformed. HAVE FAITH.



It no longer affects you like before, once you're out of it. Just forget them. Don't even think or talk about them. Feel like they no longer exist in your life. This brings peace to you.


Trust me. This is what even I did and I do. It works well.


At last, I would like to say one thing here. FORGIVE. Yes, you heard it right. Forgive them. I know it's hard. Really really hard. I feel difficulty in saying it.


But I'm just saying this so you can get over them completely. Also, Forgiveness helps you more than the other person who harmed you.


Forgiveness brings you peace. Take your time, but in the end, there is no better feeling than forgiving those and making peace with it and moving on in your life.


Forgive them but never ever forget the lessons they taught you.


HARD BUT NOT IMPOSSIBLE


You're stronger than you imagine. Take help from your family or friends or a counsellor. Take time. But don't miss to enjoy your greatest gift, "YOUR LIFE."



3. Don't get attached


We come across several people in our life. Some are part of your family, and some are your friends. Then come some special ones in our life, and some come from us. But understand the concept of life and realize the purpose of your life.


We are born for a purpose. Know it. Focus on it and fulfill the purpose of your life. That is the essence of our birth.


Not just live, survive, work and think only about your family. I would not say that's not a life at all, but I would say that you're missing your life's purpose.



We come alone. We leave alone. Somewhere in between, we make bonds with the people around us. That's the beauty of life. Right!!


What is it to live without our loved ones? But accept the concept of life.


Remember nobody gonna stay with you forever. We all came for a purpose and once it's done, we leave. So don't get attached to people because life gets harder when they leave you.


Live and enjoy when people are around you. Make time for them. Create moments. Make beautiful memories with them. Live with them before they leave you. Even when they leave, you'll have those memories to cherish and move on in your life.




4. Choose your friends carefully


We cannot choose our family, but we can choose our friends. Friends are someone with whom we share everything, and friendship is one of the most precious relationships. Friends happen at unexpected places, at unexpected times.


The best part of friendship is it's irrespective of everything. Nothing can affect it. No terms like color, caste, height, weight, region, religion, race, and whatnot. Whether they are short or tall, rich or poor, heavy or light, white or black or brown, we are friends, and it is all that matters. Isn't it?



But there is one thing that you should see. It's whether they are good or bad. A good friend is a treasure, whereas a bad friend is a punishment for life. Good friends circle makes all the difference.


People can easily get an idea of us based on our friends' circle. So choose your friends wisely. Even if they are not well educated also fine. In fact, studies and all never matter in friendship.


All it matters is a good heart. So be careful while choosing friends. Make sure they are not using you or cheating you.


5. Spread kindness


The world needs kindness more than anything now. Be kind to everyone who comes into your life. Kindness costs nothing, but it greatly impacts the one who receives it. Be it human or animal.



Be kind to people even if they are not. Kindness can change anyone. Also be kind not just to humans but to every living being, especially animals.


Teach kindness to people around you with your acts. Teach empathy to kids from an early age. Being kind brings you more joy and energy.


Try to implement these. See the difference. If you like it, share it with your friends and family and let them experience it too.


Even if we make the right choices, sometimes they may not turn out as expected. Then don't feel or blame yourself. It's okay. Life tests us at times to make us strong.

Remember, every experience is a lesson. Try to learn from it, and take away those learnings with you wherever you go in your life.


Life never stops for anyone. Move on. Explore. Live the life before life leaves you. Easy to say, but it's not impossible either to follow.


Wishing you Love, light, happiness, health and Peace!!!


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Have a Happy Day!!



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